How Can I Jump Start A Love Life That I Don’t Even Have!

I was on a Mastermind call, recently and one of the woman in the group was reading my last blog post on How to Get The “Juice” Back And Jump Start Your Love Life!  She said, “How can I jump start a love life that I don’t even have!” I said, great question, I will make that my next blog post, so here it is.

You may not be in a relationship right now, but there are ways that you can jump start the love life that you may want. A couple of weeks ago, I wrote about “How To BE The Person You Want Your Partner To Be!” I wrote on what are the “Must Haves” that you must have either in the relationship that you are in or the one that they may want to have. You must get very clear on the partner that you want. Write down what are the qualities {Your Must Haves} that they absolutely must have or else later on, this could possibly be a deal breaker. If you absolutely want to have children, then make sure that your potential partner can even have them or that they even want to  some day.  Make sure that you get really clear on what you want before the stars & rockets go shooting off and you find that you are back in the same kind of relationship that you may have just left.

When you are very clear even before you are in a relationship, the chances of you attracting the person with those are great. Now there may be some “Must Haves” that aren’t a deal breaker and that they are at the bottom of your list. If someone has the majority of them, then you can easily coach them to have one or two of the less important ones later on, if they feel they are important as well. Someone may not seem to have all of your “Must Haves” in the beginning of your relationship, but a lot of times, people grow as the relationship does as well,  just make sure your ABSOLUTE MUSTS are there in the beginning.

In order to attract the person with your “Must Haves” you need to be the person you want your potential partner to be. If your top one is honesty, and you are a person who doesn’t always tell the truth, you may want to start being more honest yourself. If another one of yours is someone who doesn’t drink, but you do and you go to bars on a regular basis, chances are that someone you meet probably drinks and you may have to re-evaluate yourself as well. The more you are clear on what your “Must Haves” are, the more likely you have a greater chance to meet someone with those.

We go to a relationship to go to give, so now is the time to get yourself to this point. If you are empty, you won’t have anything to give. In order for you to be able to truly love, honor, respect, trust and even at times have to forgive … you need to have already done that with yourself. So many people enter a relationship hoping that someone will help to complete them. You need to feel complete before entering a relationship, rather your potential partner should enhance & share  your completeness and vice versa.  As you enter a relationship, there are ways to continually fill yourself up with love, honor, etc., so that you  never feel empty {I will elaborate on this in another post}. You don’t  ever want to feel that you don’t have any more to give to your relationship.

Here is a summary of the things that you can do To Jump Start the Love Life that you may want:

•      Write down your “Must Haves” that you want in a partner {Be very clear}

•      Be the person that you want your potential partner to be

•      Go to places that your ideal partner may be {if u love art, then go to an art gallery, shows, etc.}

•      Work on feeling complete {filling yourself with love, honor, respect, etc.}

•      Take the necessary steps to make you the BEST you {if you want to lose weight, get your teeth
  

fixed, etc., do that now}

When you do these and are very clear on your “Must Haves”  you will have more of a chance of attracting your potential partner and less of a chance of falling into the same vicious cycle, that you may have been in the past. Thus, continuing to be with the same kind of partner that don’t even have these. Lastly, embrace the person who you truly are and love yourself…you are so worth it! I cherish you, as well as your opinions and welcome any comments, thank you!

“The purpose of a relationship is not to have another who might complete you, but to have another with whom you might share your completeness.” ~ Neale Donald Walsch

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Live, Love and Laugh,

Susan

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Susan Preston is a Mindset Motivator & a Relationship Mentor. Susan can empower you to Master your Mindset and Ignite your Relationships by helping you to get the clarity to take your life and business to that next Amazing level. She brings a lifetime of experience to help you create that balance in every area of your life so that you are truly living your Dreams!

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